Notes from the Principal: How To Start the School Year Right

Written by Shayda Windle | Photos by Caroline Gray

Ashley Barkley is entering her second year as principal of Aldie Elementary School, bringing with her both a fresh perspective and a profound respect for the school’s history and heart. As she looks to the year ahead, she reflects on her journey in education, what she loves about Aldie, and what families should plan for as students return to school.

Barkley began her career as a school counselor, a role that shaped her passion for “supporting the whole child academically, socially, and emotionally.” Her early years laid a strong foundation for leadership, which eventually led her to becoming an assistant principal. There, she gained valuable experience in instructional leadership and cultivating strong school communities.

When the opportunity arose to lead Aldie Elementary, Barkley says she was immediately drawn in. “I was captivated by the school’s unique charm, deep-rooted history, and strong sense of community. It’s a truly special place, and I’m honored to be part of its next chapter.” Looking forward, “I’ll continue to listen, learn, and work collaboratively with families and staff to ensure Aldie remains the warm, small-town school it’s known to be.”

Outside of school, Barkley stays busy with her family. She and her husband, Dustin, are parents to 13-year-old Addison and 8-year-old Hank. Most weekends, you’ll find them cheering from the sidelines — whether it’s softball for Addison or football or basketball for Hank. “Both of our children attend LCPS schools, and we love being part of this amazing county,” she shares.

“I was captivated by the school’s unique charm, deep-rooted history, and strong sense of community. It’s a truly special place, and I’m honored to be part of its next chapter.”
– Barkley 

At Aldie Elementary, Barkley says her top priority is continuing to build a school culture where every child and family feels they belong. “Belonging is at the heart of a successful school. It’s the foundation for meaningful relationships, academic success, and personal growth. When children feel safe, valued, and connected, they’re more confident, motivated, and ready to learn.”

As families gear up for a new school year, Barkley, who has a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in school counseling, shares her advice for parents navigating the transition. Her guidance: “Ease into the year with consistency and connection.” Simple routines, like adjusting bedtime and morning schedules a week or two before school starts, can make a big difference. She also encourages open conversations about the year ahead. “Celebrate your child’s excitement, acknowledge any nervous feelings, and reassure them that school is a place where they’ll be supported and cared for.”

Barkley recommends promoting independence by giving children age-appropriate responsibilities. “Packing their own backpack, laying out clothes the night before, and organizing school supplies are small things that help build confidence and independence. And don’t forget: reading together every day builds a strong foundation for future success.”

She also urges families to attend back-to-school events to spark enthusiasm and help students feel connected from their first day.

“Community connections are so important to a small school like Aldie.” – Barkley

Looking ahead, Barkley is particularly excited about new community-building initiatives coming to Aldie this year. “From school-wide events to family engagement activities, we’re working on creative ways to strengthen our sense of community.” There will be many opportunities for parents to get involved and for students to feel a sense of pride and belonging.

Another priority this year is to expand partnerships with local businesses and organizations. “Community connections are so important to a small school like Aldie,” she says. “Whether through sponsorships, guest speakers, career exploration, or support for school events, local partnerships bring real-world relevance and added excitement to what we do. We’d love to hear from anyone interested in collaborating.”

Before the school year kicks off, Barkley leaves families with this message: “I cannot express how grateful I am to be part of the Aldie community. There’s something truly special about this school, and I’m committed to honoring its traditions while helping us grow into the future. I can’t wait to work alongside our families, staff, and students to make this another amazing year. Seeing students walk back through the doors after summer break is always a joyful moment, but what really makes Aldie Elementary shine is our amazing staff. Their heart, commitment, and unwavering support create the kind of welcoming school community that kids can’t wait to come back to. I’m incredibly proud to call them my team!” ML

Published in the August 2025 issue of Middleburg Life.